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Moving Forward Together: Finding Hope and Purpose in Challenging Times ~ with Tenzin Chogkyi

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Tenzin Chogkyi
Tenzin Chogkyi

In these turbulent times, many of us find ourselves grappling with uncertainty, fear, and frustration. Whether it’s the political landscape, the climate crisis, or personal struggles, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and unsure of how to move forward. How do we access hope and keep our sense of purpose alive?


Recognizing Our Emotions Without Judgment

A key part of this journey is acknowledging our emotions without labeling them as “good” or “bad.” Fear, anxiety, and even numbness are natural responses to uncertainty. Instead of suppressing these feelings, we can recognize them as signals—our mind’s way of alerting us to what matters. The real challenge is not whether we feel these emotions, but how we respond to them.

Our minds often anticipate emotional discomfort and experience anxiety and distress because of it. How often do we suffer due to dread of things that never come to pass? Or even when they do, how often do we create additional suffering through the stories we attach to them before, during, or after their occurrence?

Anxiety is deeply connected to our brain’s threat response system—fight or flight. While this response serves us in immediate danger, remaining in this heightened state for too long can lead to burnout, helplessness, and even despair. Anticipatory grief—feeling distress about an uncertain future—is a form of unhealthy anxiety that leaves us stuck in fear. Recognizing this and learning to work with it helps us find our way back to balance.


The Power of Perspective: Shifting Anxiety into Hope

Anxiety and excitement feel the same in our bodies—the difference lies in our narrative. Instead of seeing uncertainty as a source of fear, we can reframe it as a space of possibility. This doesn’t mean ignoring difficulties but rather embracing the unknown with curiosity instead of dread.

Hope is not blind optimism. It is not saying, “Everything will be fine.” Nor is it pessimism, which assumes the worst. Instead, hope is active. It is about recognizing difficulties and choosing to engage anyway. As Roshi Joan Halifax once shared, hope is preparing for the long, cold winter—not denying it, but ensuring that we have enough potatoes in the root cellar to make it through.

Wise hope is rooted in the understanding that what we do matters, even if we do not yet know how or when our efforts will make an impact. Vaclav Havel once said, “Hope is not the conviction that something will turn out well, but the certainty that something makes sense, regardless of how it turns out.”

Even our despair points us to what we deeply care about. We wouldn’t feel despair if we didn’t care. Our sadness and frustration can show us what is important and what we are willing to stand up for. As Daniel Berrigan reminds us, “One cannot level one’s moral lance at every evil in the universe. There are just too many of them. But you can do something; and the difference between doing something and doing nothing is everything.”


Small Actions Make a Difference

Even small actions matter. When we feel overwhelmed by the enormity of global crises, it’s easy to believe that our contributions are insignificant. However, every small act of kindness, every effort to help, contributes to the larger web of positive change.

Whether it’s volunteering at a food bank, offering support to a friend, or simply being present with compassion, these actions have a ripple effect. It may not change the world, but it changes us. And in changing ourselves, we contribute to the collective shift toward hope and resilience.

Taking action, no matter how small, moves us out of a fear-based mindset and restores our sense of agency. Rabbi Tarfon said, “It is not your duty to finish the work, but neither are you at liberty to neglect it.” Similarly, the Prophet Mohammed teaches, “Plant a seed, even if you see the Day of Judgment around the corner.”


Community and Connection: The Antidote to Isolation

In times of crisis, the natural instinct can be to withdraw, but isolation often deepens our despair. Community care—showing up for one another—is just as vital as self-care. By reaching out, checking in, and being present for others, we remind ourselves that we are not alone in our struggles.

We can also combat isolation by fostering human connection in our daily lives. Simple acts—such as inviting people over for a meal, checking in with a neighbor, or simply being fully present in a conversation—build a foundation of support. When we acknowledge that we are not alone, we create the conditions for collective healing and strength.

Stocking up on compassion is essential—everyone processes anxiety and fear differently. Patience and understanding allow us to bridge divides and meet each other with kindness.


Strategies for Managing Anxiety and Cultivating Hope

If we find ourselves feeling anxious, it helps to cultivate a practice of mindfulness and awareness:

  • Notice what is actually here. Distinguish reality from the mind’s anticipation of the future. Breathe and realize that in this moment, you are okay.

  • Recognize the stories your mind is creating. If your mind is conjuring up difficulty that is not actually present, acknowledge this tendency and make note of how it is causing unnecessary suffering.

  • Find balance. A gratitude practice can help balance anxious thoughts by highlighting what is going well and how people are supporting one another.

  • Reframe the situation. Instead of seeing uncertainty as a threat, see it as an opportunity—for connection, for clarifying priorities, for compassionate action.

  • Take small actions. Engaging in even small positive actions shifts us from fear-based paralysis into meaningful agency.

  • Let go of what you cannot control. Focus your energy on what is within your power, and surrender the rest. This is a long game.


Hope is not passive—it is something we cultivate through action, presence, and connection. It requires us to stay engaged, even when we feel discouraged. And in doing so, we contribute to a world where resilience and kindness prevail.

May we all continue moving forward together, embracing our shared humanity and our collective potential for transformation.


“Where there’s love, there’s possibility. And where there’s possibility, there’s energy. Where there’s energy, anything at all can happen.” – Dana Falls

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